Welcome to So We Speak, 

In 1 Thessalonians 2:4, Paul writes, "but just as we have been approved by God to be entrusted with the Gospel, so we speak, not to please man, but to please God, who tests our hearts."  Our passion is that Christians today would have that same conviction; to speak in such a way that honors God and encourages others.  In today's world, and in our culture especially, it is very difficult to be informed without being conformed.  We want to change that.  We want to give a voice to Christian conviction. At So We Speak, we seek to publish content that allows you to speak life into your community, to engage with what's going on around you, and to be informed without being conformed.  


To get to know the site, take a look at our first things post!


Feel free to send any questions, requests, comments, or content to info@sowespeak.com!



-Cole, Terry, and Ben



Cole Feix

Founder and Writer

Cole Feix is the president of So We Speak Media, a media company designed to keep Christians informed about the world without being conformed to it. He writes a weekly news letter called the Weekly Speak and hosts the So We Speak podcast. 


Cole grew up in Oklahoma City and served as the Pastor of Adult Education and College Ministry at Crossings Community Church until 2018. He graduated from Oklahoma State University, completed a Master’s of Divinity at Oklahoma Christian University, and is finishing his Ph.D. in Philosophical Theology at the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. Cole currently lives in Kansas City and serves on staff at Redeemer Fellowship. 

He's passionate about craft coffee, followed closely by anything related to Winston Churchill.

Terry Feix


Terry is the Executive Pastor at Crossings Community Church in Oklahoma City, OK.


He attended Oklahoma Christian University and received a Mathematics degree with a minor in Greek and Hebrew, and also attended the University of Oklahoma obtaining a Masters in Mathematics.  He spent 30 years working in information systems and as an executive at AT&T before he joined the staff at Crossings.


Terry is a fan of history, philosophy, international politics, the intersection of culture and faith and anything Churchill!


He is married to Laura and they have three sons - Cole, Carson (who is married to Rachel), and Tucker.

Ben Williams


Ben is the Preaching Minister at the Glenpool Church of Christ in Glenpool, OK and the Director of the Faith Week session at Frog Road Christian Camp.

After graduating with a degree in Astrophysics from the University of Oklahoma, Ben went on to get a Masters of Divinity from Oklahoma Christian University, and he is currently pursuing a Ph.D in Philosophy and Apologetics from Spurgeon College at the Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary.

Ben is married to his heart's love, Selene, and they have two sons, Lucas and Calvin.  He recently edited and published Why We Stayed: Honesty and Hope in the Churches of Christ.

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